What is the life of a Sugar Baby? It is a realistic overview that Semie Atadja, 24, tries to communicate on his social networks. The young woman, who does not hesitate to claim her love for “rich men”, has been in a relationship for six years with Claudio, 60.
Met on a specialized dating site, called “Seeking Arragements”, Semie now leads a sumptuous and extravagant lifestyle. A life she wouldn’t give up even if it meant being in a relationship with a man almost 40 years her senior.
A complicated love history
“I dated men my age who were drug dealers, drug addicts, good boys and bad boys,” Semie told the Mirror newspaper. “But there is something special in the connection between Claudio and me,” she added. Their story begins six years ago on a dating site. Claudio sends her a message “Hey doll, do you like sushi? on a Monday. The following Wednesday, they meet for the first time.
“We then went back to his place, did some yoga and it went from there,” commented Semie. “We saw each other regularly and then when he invited me to a festival, that’s when we fell in love,” she confided. After three months, the young woman puts her suitcases at Claudio. “He is so understanding. Nothing I say surprises him,” she agreed. Affirming that her companion was “never upset” and “always there to help him”, she claims to finally live an ideal relationship.
This age difference, however, does not leave those close to Semie without fear. “My friends were suspicious, they weren’t sure of him and before our first date they kept asking me if I was sure I wanted to meet him because they didn’t think he was trustworthy” commented -she. Assuring that Claudio is now unanimous among his relatives, Semie explained that he had some reluctance to talk about his story with his family.
“Now they really support me and realize that we are in love,” she said. Even if the couple formed by Claudio and Semie seems solid, remarks are frequent. “I just think people are envious. If you could live this life, travel the world, who wouldn’t? underlined Semie. The couple spends their days between New Jersey, in the United States, where Claudio’s business is located, and the Dominican Republic, where they have a condo.
Insults and criticism
Semie, reassured by the financial stability of her spouse, fully assumes being a “Sugar baby” even if she is faced with criticism. “Some men treat me like an easy girl or a prostitute,” she said. “It’s probably to feel better that they are mean to me,” she continued. Claudio is not spared either. “Some call him a pedophile. When it started to happen, it was stressing me out and I was answering everyone but Claudio asked why I cared,” she said, tired. From now on, the criticisms can rain, Semie does not worry about it any more.
rich men only
Returning to the term Sugar Baby, sometimes misunderstood, Semie tried to propose a definition. “People think it’s sex work or escorting but it’s not. It’s just about dating wealthy men and having experiences that you wouldn’t have with someone the same age as you.” If Claudio does not give him money directly, Semie has personal credit cards, it is he who pays his bills. “It’s not as if I received a fixed amount,” she added.
Former influencer and waitress
Living “a fairy tale”, Semi has visited incredible places with Claudio, going to Colombia, Shanghai, Italy, Germany and Colorado. “Before meeting him, I was trying to be an influencer and worked in a small restaurant as a waitress,” she confided. Claudio, father of two children and grandfather of four, introduced his partner to his family. They all seem to get along great. “I love being a grandmother,” said Semie. “I skipped the step of having children and went straight to having grandchildren! she laughed. “Everyone has a type and my type is rich!” concluded Semie, delighted.