While making new friends, this young couple absolutely did not expect to receive a very naughty request!
Since their move, Dakota and her husband Simon (first names) have met another couple with whom they get along perfectly well. “We have a lot of things in common like our ages, our careers and our hobbies. They are friendly and very beautiful” explained the young woman in a letter addressed to Coleen Nolan, well-being coach for The Daily Mirror. And to add that the mood had unfortunately changed when she discovered that their new friends were swingers: “The other night we were at their house for a drink. The husband made a joke saying that we should ‘ continue the party in the bedroom.'”
Dakota and her better half burst out laughing, convinced it was just a joke. But their host let them know he was very serious: “When we got up to leave, he leaned over to me and whispered ‘Think about what I said. We would all have a lot of fun together .'” A naughty proposal that did not please the main concerned at all: “Now, I no longer want to see them because I am embarrassed! Just the idea gives me chills. My husband and I, we would never do that. We’re not that kind of couple. I don’t think we can stay friends with them and my husband thinks the same, which is sad because we love their company.”
Will they be able to maintain their friendship with a swinger couple?
For Coleen Nolan, the situation can be solved in two ways: distance yourself or discuss it frankly: “If you are good friends, being direct with them seems to be the best solution – they will probably laugh about it and you can all move on. something else.” The British journalist, however, warned Dakota about her relationship with this couple: “The question you have to ask yourself is this: will you be comfortable in their company after their proposal to do somersaults in the room? If the answer is no and that this situation has fundamentally changed your friendship, I think it will be necessary to turn the page.”