Returning home earlier than expected, this 34-year-old man did not expect to surprise his girlfriend in the arms of another. And yet, it is indeed the sad scene he witnessed. A real shock, especially since the explanations of his half broke his heart. The 30-year-old told his story in a letter to Deidre Sanders, the famous Sun adviser. “We’ve been dating for two years. We met on an app and we hit it off straight away,” he says. At the time, the young man felt like “the luckiest person in the world”. Unfortunately for him, the situation quickly turned into a nightmare.
The two lovebirds continued their romance despite the distance that separated them. Ready to do anything for his sweetheart, the young man did not hesitate to pay for her trips so that she could come and visit him in London: “I am not rich but I have a decent standard of living as an agent real estate, and I own my own little apartment. I was so in love, I was constantly buying her very expensive gifts and paying for everything. Even though I was starting to run into a little debt, it was worth it.” After a year of relationship, they moved in together: “We spent three months of happiness and then she started to cause arguments.”
The couple began to drift apart: “I saw a man’s name pop up on her cell phone but she assured me it was a friend.” One day, the Brit left his job early: “When I got home, she was kissing and cuddling a man on the couch.” The 30-year-old confronted his sweetheart, but the latter was cruel: “She told me that at first she loved me, but then she no longer felt the chemistry between us and that she had stayed. for the gifts and the free rent. I’m heartbroken and lost. I thought we had something special.”
Deidre Sanders sympathized with the pain of the young man, advising him to move on: “What a cruel discovery and way to break up with you. She clearly does not deserve you. It will be difficult at first but focus on yourself. One day, you will manage to stop thinking about her at all.”