To fully enjoy the sensual moments of lovemaking, there is a certain balance to be found. There is a certain letting go to adopt, but while focusing your mind on what is really happening. We think a little about the next caress or the next position to adopt. For one reason or another, the mind is lost a thousand places from the bed, the sofa or the back seat of the car where the hugs take place. Mind wandering during lovemaking is a phenomenon that many partners go through during sex.

This moment of bewilderment, loss of control or downright absence can suddenly weigh down the atmosphere. The partner who suddenly discovers the person with whom he or she is making love with his eyes scanning the imperfections of the ceiling can be offended. A conversation that was not planned at all might even take place. The couple can pick up where they left off or postpone the session to a more convenient time. It is possible to avoid this kind of inconvenience with a few tips.

Take an interest in what your partner wants

The simplest and most effective trick to avoid distraction is to focus on ways to satisfy each other’s desires. You don’t have to think about it for a long time at the risk of getting lost in your thoughts. It’s simple, it helps to communicate while you’re having sex. During foreplay, you can ask your partner if he or she likes what you are doing or if he or she would like you to do something else. Same for next. On the other hand, you have to create an atmosphere conducive to sex in the room: dim light, silence, telephone off, door closed, etc.

Couples: these techniques to think only about sex during the act

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Maria T.
Maria T.

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